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How Vibrators & Lubricant Can Help Painful Sex During Menopause

Up to 90% of women experience pain or discomfort during sex due to hormonal or lifestyle changes. Did you know that vibrators not only add spice to the bedroom but can also help with menopause concerns like vaginal dryness, low libido, weak orgasms, irritations, or tightness? That’s right, according to the North American Menopause Society (NAMS) vibrators can increase blood flow to the genitals which is extremely beneficial in combating many of the symptoms of reduced estrogen in the vaginal and vulvar tissues.

That’s why we’re so excited to feature Tabu’s Golden Hour Kit as part of our Kindra: Curated offering. The Golden Hour Kit features Nuri, a lightweight, heating massager, and Aureum personal lubricant, a moisturizing, water-based formula to soothe and calm your most sensitive areas. 

Golden Hour Kit

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Tabu developed its sexual health products in partnership with clinicians and therapists and is FDA cleared which means it has been reviewed for being both safe and effective. It has thoughtful details like 5 speeds, gentle warming to stimulate blood flow and is shaped to simulate the function of a dilator. Dilators are designed to gently stretch and relax vaginal muscles and can also help strengthen vaginal and vulvar tissue.

The Aureum lubricant is formulated with organic ingredients known to calm sensitive intimate tissue along with powerful antioxidants and omega-6 essential fatty acids to prevent dryness. 

Interested in learning more about vibrators that focus on external stimulation? Learn more here.

The Pearl Massager

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Want to know the difference between a vaginal lotion and a lubricant? Our popular guide here goes over everything you need to know. If you’re struggling with vaginal dryness or discomfort, we recommend a vaginal lotion like our Daily Vaginal Lotion (if your concern is mild to moderate dryness or discomfort) or V Relief Serum (if more severe dryness or discomfort, or burning, and stinging is your concern). A vaginal lotion will help improve dryness in intimate skin over time which can lead to more comfort during intimate activities. Adding in a vibrator paired with lubricant for solo play or with a partner can help boost comfort during sex.

The Daily Vaginal Lotion

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