Did you know that regular sexual activity can actually help combat some of the symptoms that crop up with age? Yep, that’s right, whether it’s solo play or with a partner, intimacy can help reduce stress, increase natural lubrication, improve sleep, strengthen vaginal muscles, and decrease incontinence. Sign us up! 

But when 90% of women experience pain or discomfort during sex due to hormonal or lifestyle changes, engaging in sexual activity might feel intimidating. That’s why we’re so happy to feature our friends at Tabu. Tabu’s sexual wellness products are created in partnership with clinicians and therapists, are FDA cleared, and thoughtfully designed to promote tissue health and help women achieve orgasm.

The Pearl is Tabu’s soft-touch external vulva stimulator that’s made from 100% medical grade silicone. It features 4 vibration patterns with the option to customize intensity so you can find your perfect setting.

The Pearl Massager

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It’s small but easy to hold, so it’s great to use whether you’re with a partner or engaging in self-care. If you’re working up to tolerating external vibrators or dilators without pain, or you feel increased arousal with external stimulation, The Pearl might be a great option for you. 

If you’re looking for internal stimulation as well, we recommend Golden Hour Kit which includes Nuri, a lightweight, heating massager that is designed for internal use, and Aureum personal lubricant, a moisturizing, water-based formula to soothe and calm your most sensitive areas.

Golden Hour Kit

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Did you know that stimulation to the vulvar tissues can help increase blood flow and combat some of the effects of fluctuating estrogen? That means stronger tissues, decreased dryness, and an increase in natural lubrication. If you’re struggling with vaginal dryness or discomfort, we also recommend a vaginal lotion like our Daily Vaginal Lotion (if your concern is mild to moderate dryness or discomfort) or V Relief Serum (if more severe dryness or discomfort or burningand stinging is your concern). A vaginal lotion will help improve dryness in intimate skin over time which can lead to more comfort during intimate activities. Adding in a vibrator paired with lubricant for solo play or with a partner can help boost comfort during sex.

The Daily Vaginal Lotion

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